This brings to question:  Can women really have it all?  The idea many young ambitious women paint in their minds of career, marriage and family may hold a huge blind spot.  We hope to be able to gain and maintain high positions within our careers all the while raising a family, but one seemingly inevitably lags behind.  Women feel guilty, and in some cases concerned when they are not devoting enough time to their career and even more guilty when they neglect their home lives to do so.  Where is the win?